DEAR WOMEN,
Remember how handsome, smooth and sculpted his body was, the first day he swept you off your feet!
Remember how happy he was making you, his wife.
He is still that handsome, quiet, unassuming man that you once loved! Though your words and betrayals have broken his spirit many times, but he is still resilient!
He now carries your burden, your children’s burden, your parents, your siblings, his parents, his siblings, his stewardship in the house of the LORD or in the mosque. He has to face his angry bosses and overbearing clients. Most times, he breaks down and cry in private! Most times he is afraid of losing his job. He has to do everything possible to put food on your table, clothes on your back and a roof over your head.
That’s why he has to trade his designers only 3 pairs of shoes: (1) One for Church, (2) One cooperate for work (3) One to switch it up.
5 Shirts for the five working days of the week; 2 black trousers for work and 1 other dark colour.
He eats only once a day, at night, after everybody has eaten, to make sure you are satisfied!
Don’t complain about your husband because he is fat and bald now, he doesn’t like it. Afterall, you met him with his 6 packs and well-trimmed hairs on his head. Marriage messed up his physique, but not his mindset.
A FATHER’S AFFECTION AS A PROTECTOR MAKES HIM TO TURN A BLIND EYE TO ALL OF THAT AND HIS ONLY CONCERN IS HIS FAMILY’S WELFARE.
How many women will slap another women on live television, for insulting her husband, but one man WILL? Ask Will Smith!
Remember he once brought you joy and happiness! Tolerated all your entanglements in August, your melodramas and tantrums, gave his best to see you win in life.
No man notices stretch marks on a wife that honours him, but he sees a lot more and will be pushed to say a lot more hurtful things to her, if she keeps provoking him.
A THOUSAND HUGS TO ALL THE MEN! FATHERS OUT THERE! WE LOVE YOU ALL
God 